I still
remember the first time I saw you take the field. I was watching a Yankees
game, for the sake of watching the game and then your face appeared on the
screen. Now I was paying attention. It was your first game and it was love at
first sight. like every other girl I became obsessed with you. Posters, cards, pictures, magazines, I had
them all. I was going to grow up and marry you.
There’s a
famous quote by Maya Angelou that says, “People will forget what you did, but
people will never forget how you made them feel.” And that’s exactly why twenty
years later, at the age of 35 with two kids and a husband, I’m still in love
with you.
My first time
seeing you play in person was at a game in Anaheim. I showed up early to catch
you at BP with every intention of making sure you saw me too. I was shouting at
the top of my lungs like every other person there, trying to get YOUR
attention. Trying to be noticed. To get an autograph. To get a ball. Something. And then you stopped. You looked around and
in Jeter fashion you tipped your hat. At me. And at every other kid in that
stadium yelling your name. You made us all feel like we were the only one
there. Like we mattered. And it was
always that way whenever you came to town. You stopped. You tipped. You thanked
us. You always made us fans feel special.
So it was no
surprise that you made sure I got my ball at Dodger Stadium a few years later. I
was yelling so loud during batting practice that I’m sure it annoyed you.
Probably why you threw that ball at me. To shut me up. It worked. I was all
smiles all day.
The next
year I showed up at Anaheim, with that very ball in my hand and a contraband
poster that said, “DJ Please sign my ball.” I kept shouting to you during batting
practice in hopes that you’d hear me. Like always, a tip of the hat and I knew
you KNEW I was there. In an effort to outsmart all the other fans, I was on the
Angels dugout side. People said you’d never come. You wouldn’t hear me. You
wouldn’t see me. But they were wrong. In the middle of your fielding practice,
you tucked your glove under your arm and ran towards me. As I realized what was
happening I started jumping and shouting. You motioned me to be quiet. OMG! You
were coming towards me. You walked right up to me and asked me, “Where’s that
ball you want me to sign Sweet heart.” I told you the story of how I had gotten
it from you at Dodger Stadium, you smiled and asked if there was anything else
I wanted signed. And then like always, YOU thanked me.
People have
asked me why I didn’t get you to sign a new ball so that it could be worth
money someday. The answer is easy. The memories and my stories are priceless.
They’re not for sale, they’re for me to hold on to and tell my kids and
grandkids who will no doubt know who the Greatest Baseball Player ever was.
Derek Sanderson Jeter.
I tell these
stories over and over, to anyone who will listen and I still get as excited as
I did then. They speak volumes of who you are, of what you mean to baseball and
the countless fans that admire and love you.
Over the
years I grew up, I got married, I had daughters of my own. As I moved on things
from my past were lost or tossed, but never you or the memorabilia. Never the
stories and never the love. Some moms are embarrassed of their teenage crushes
and yet my girls love you just as much as I do. They share the same stories,
the same admiration and I’m so blessed that I was able to share You with them.
They’ve been to the games, they’ve watched you on tv, they own the jerseys and
the posters. They are Derek Jeter Fans just like mom. They shout at the tv in October, they cheer at the rings. You've given us the best that baseball has to offer. Even when the Yankees were down, they still
cheered. They still loved you and kept the hope because it didn’t matter, we
had The Captain on our side.
And so today
our love story ends. And I'm ok knowing that it's not the only one you have, today there are millions of stories like mine being shared by moms to their little girls.
It’s been a great run. You’ve been the best kind of love to have, not easy when you live in Dodgers Town but it prevailed. You were baseball when baseball didn’t know what it was. The definition of greatness, class, and humility all in one. Today I tip my hat to you. Thanks for the memories Captain, you will be missed.
It’s been a great run. You’ve been the best kind of love to have, not easy when you live in Dodgers Town but it prevailed. You were baseball when baseball didn’t know what it was. The definition of greatness, class, and humility all in one. Today I tip my hat to you. Thanks for the memories Captain, you will be missed.